I admire people who are kind and generous. Why is that? I could say because they are endearing qualities, which they are; but there's more to it. To be able to see it in them, I have to be able to recognise it and to be able to do that means it exists in me.

We cannot recognise and thus admire in someone else a quality that doesn't exist in us. The reason I admire kindness and generosity in others is because I have always been kind and generous.

Please get your head around what I am saying here as your future depends on it.

What have you always been? Answer = everything you admire in other people.

So declaring “I have always been kind and generous” draws that experience to me from the future. 'Always' is the button that builds the bridge to the future.

Can you distinguish between someone who is poorly and someone who is vibrantly healthy? Why? Because it's all within you and it's always been within you and you pick the parts you want to experience. You say, “I have always been vibrantly healthy”.

How far can you take this? A far as your level of acceptance allows...

What are you going to do if you're in a marketplace and an exceedingly beautiful being walks past you? Do you recognise them? What do you say? I have always been exceedingly beautiful...

It's all within us – ALWAYS brings it out.

We are the result of our past neurological hardwiring and in the future we will be the result of the hardwiring we are creating now to cross the bridge. The work is daily repetition to hardwire.

Try it on for size. Take any quality that you admire and accept the fact that you admire it because it exists in you. Take all the qualities that you admire in others and accept the fact that you can only do so because you recognise those qualities. You wouldn't recognise them if they didn't exist in you.

Now evolution is begging and you're consciously working on yourself. It's not about materialism and it never was. It's about you realising your full potential. It's all within you and all you have to do is create your own ideal. There will be many butterflies next year... Gary.

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